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The Conscious Divorce Process

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In my role as a family law attorney, it is my utmost intention to provide my clients with both a clear explanation of the law and experienced guidance so they can make well-informed decisions. But I also realize that divorce is much more than just about the legal issues. It’s personal. It’s about you. It’s about your family. […]

The Four Laws of Creation

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Just for the fun of it, I’d like to share some thoughts about the Four Laws of Creation that govern everything we experience. Does that sound interesting? Now, keep in mind, these are big ‘L’ Laws, not the kind society writes to regulate behavior, the kind you might expect a lawyer, like me, to talk […]

What is Heart-Centered Conflict Resolution?

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I practice and teach heart-centered conflict resolution and when I say those words, I’m often asked, “What exactly does that mean?” At that point, I usually take a deep, slow breath and prepare myself for a lengthy explanation, wondering where to begin. I typically ask myself, do I just give the 30-second elevator speech or […]

I Blame Him (or Her)…

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One of the easiest traps to fall into is the ‘Blame Game’ trap. Sure, you’re unhappy. Your marriage is falling apart. When you try to figure out why, the most obvious answers are… “My wife isn’t emotionally available…” “My husband doesn’t fulfill my need for intimate connection…” “My wife is a terrible money manager…” “My […]

Spiritual Psychology and Divorce

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There’s hardly a more appropriate context within which to apply the principles of spiritual psychology than the process of divorce. It is so easy to get caught up in the negative aspects of the ego when going through the challenges of divorce, spending a fortune on attorneys and other litigation experts; however, there’s almost no […]

What Makes a Divorce Conscious?

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A divorce is conscious when the framework within which the divorce is happening is better understood by the person experiencing it, who in turn utilizes this awareness to learn, heal, and grow from the experience. By framework, I mean the subconscious programming that runs much of our lives. Most of us go through life unaware […]