After seeing countless cases get stuck in a broken system that often costs people everything they have, I knew there had to be a better way.
Conflict arrises when communication breaks down and one person stops trying to see things from the other's perspective.
Instead of avoiding the issue, the only way to effectively resolve it is by working through the energy of a perceived problem. This doesn't have to be hard (or at least as hard as you might think).
In most cases, people don't even realize this is an option. They hear "horror stories" from friends and relatives about their divorces and are encouraged to protect themselves and lawyer-up. This is where things get much more complicated than they need to be.
What if someone was available that you and your spouse could go to and they would guide you through the process and help you both avoid the pitfalls and challenges that come up in most other divorces?
I've never been a fan of doing things just because that's how it's always done. I much prefer stepping back and seeing if we can rise above the level of thinking that has resulted in the apparent "problem" so we can see the solution. I firmly believe that every problem comes complete with the solution, it just takes a higher perspective to see it.
It is my responsibility to my clients to help them to rise above the murky waters of the conventional divorce and see that there are peaceful solutions that will work for them.